As a spiritual healer I see many clients make the mistake of mis-communicating or over-communicating. They try to address their needs not being met, but in doing so make a mess. While trying to communicate they fall into blame, threateining and controlling behaviors. They loose their internal balance and their connection to the other person.
Next time, you are considering addressing a concern ask yourself these three questions:
1. Is what you are saying true?
2. Is what you are saying kind?
3. Is what you want to say necessary?
Colby Wilk, Spiritual and Theta Healer, Heal Through Spirit, Seattle, WA