Spiritual and Theta Healing and Avoiding Disappointment
Why do we get so disappointed by other people?
For the most part, it's because we take things personally.
Someone forgets, cancels, ignores, or fails us — and we don’t just react to the action.
We assign meaning to it.
Watch as Deb confronts her feelings that life is futile by letting go of the pain of disappointment.
When a Simple Letdown Becomes a Spiral
Let’s say a friend blows you off for a Friday night movie.
You might think:
“They don’t respect me. No one ever has. Life is going to be hard if I have to deal with people like this.”
That moment of disappointment quickly becomes a story.
You move from a single event into an emotional spin — one that echoes old patterns, hurts, and unmet needs.
Why?
Because you were seeking predictability and safety in another person.
But people — even good ones — can be unaware, inconsistent, and reactive.
Disappointment Means Disconnection
Here’s the deeper truth:
If someone’s behavior deeply rattles you, it’s a sign you’ve temporarily lost connection with Source — the greater consciousness, the Divine.
When you’re connected to that higher awareness, someone’s misstep doesn’t mean anything about you.
You can witness their behavior with compassion, not collapse.
You can stay centered.
Making People Your God Never Ends Well
Disappointment stings the most when you’ve made someone else your God — the source of your value, peace, or stability.
But they can’t hold that role. They’re human.
The only true safety — the only real grounding — comes from reconnecting to your inner Divine.
Watch the video below as Deb recovers from disapoinment and starts to believe life is not futile.
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You don’t have to keep taking everything so personally.
You don’t have to stay stuck in disappointment.
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Hi! I am Colby!
I am an Intuitive Guide and a Spiritual Healer based in Seattle, WA. I help you find your way — supporting you to break free and live fully, with purpose.
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